Spiritual Arrogance
by Edwin Harkness Spina
Last week, I received an email from a reader stating, "I
have evolved past the spiritual understanding of author."
I chuckled at the reader's bluntness. He didn't mince words;
clearly, he felt that he had developed capabilities that
were not only greater than those of "author" but beyond the
"understanding of author."
Whether or not this is true is beside the point. No doubt
there are readers with abilities that are greater than mine,
and these may be beyond my understanding. The issue is not
your level of development, but the fact that you are
striving to develop. One of the keys to growth is
recognizing that there is always room for improvement.
In any field, whether it's sports, the arts, your
profession, or spiritual growth there are always going to be
some people that are farther along in their development than
others. We live in a society where "trash-talking"
basketball stars and egomaniacal real estate moguls are
idolized. Inevitably, there will be people that feel the
need to tell you how much better they are than you. In the
area of spiritual development, this is known as "spiritual
arrogance."
By its nature, spiritual arrogance is exclusionary. Unlike
the mystic understanding that All is One, people suffering
from spiritual arrogance will tell you "they are advanced"
implying that "you are not." Some of the worst offenders are
those who have some understanding of the spiritual laws that
govern the universe and who have opened some of their inner
senses. They are on the path to enlightenment. Where some go
astray is when they pronounce themselves gurus.
When that happens, a difference of opinion is often assumed
to be an attack on their mastery. I once heard a gifted
woman dismiss someone who disagreed with her by explaining,
"He's not one of the 144,000," implying that he was not one
of the chosen ones in the Book of Revelation, but that she
was. At other times, I've been told to sign up for workshops
by self-proclaimed avatars, whose mission is to single-
handedly save the earth.
Last year, at a metaphysical conference, an entertainer
captured the essence of this illusion. He sang a parody of
Carly Simon's classic, You're so Vain, renamed You're so
Light. Lyrics included, "All your friends thought that you
were enlightened, you were enlightened. You're so light. You
probably think you don't have a shadow. Don't you? Don't
you?" The audience was rolling with laughter because they
all knew someone that fit that description.
There are two major drawbacks to this behavior:
1) It inhibits your own development. When you already know
everything, there's no room for additional wisdom. This
should be self-evident, but additionally just giving the
appearance of knowing everything can deter people from
sharing their knowledge with you. Who wants to be told, "I
already know that?" This shuts off sources of new knowledge.
Remember, a wise man can learn more from a fool than a fool
from a wise man, and God speaks through everyone, not just
avatars.
2) It wastes energy. Anyone who has staked out a position as
a guru is forced to conform to this new self-image. This
places an unnecessary burden on them. Why burden yourself
with having to live up to the expectations of some image?
Why waste energy trying to uphold such an image? Why not be
exactly who you are, so as to let your true inner self shine
through without filters?
In contrast to spiritual arrogance, a trait common to long-
term mystics is their humility. Unlike the basketball world,
there is no "trash-talking." Attuning with God is not a
competitive sport. There is no need to live up to
exaggerated claims or false images.
Most long-term mystics recognize that they are a part of the
One. They see themselves as students, helping those that
might not be as far along in their studies, just as more
advanced mystics have helped them in their earlier days.
With this viewpoint, they recognize that the "spiritually
arrogant" are merely passing through a phase, much as was
described in The Surrender of the Ego.
True humility involves the willingness and open-mindedness
to accept help and insight from all sources. In Mystic
Warrior, the hero, Alec Thorn, illustrates this trait by his
willingness to accept guidance from an unlikely source - a
florist. Sophie turns out to be one of the wisest characters
in the book. Conversely, other characters, oozing with
spiritual arrogance, reject outside advice and focus solely
on humbling Thorn. Both heroes and villains learn valuable
lessons in this spiritual thriller.
Much needless pain can be avoided by recognizing the
symptoms of spiritual arrogance. Don't worry that you might
not recognize a true avatar, if one ever does cross your
path. There's a foolproof method for identifying them: you
will know them by their fruit.
Best wishes,
Ed
P.S. Your feedback is welcomed - please send your comments to me at:
ehspina@mysticwarrior.us
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